A colleague showed me his well-known 
s picture of a long weekend in Facebook. Very routine, until it stops in which the subject-his poise, the lack of clothing - my attention. It seems that I was not the only one who has had this reaction when he sees the photic tart (which already had five comments), then after five seconds I get the explanation.
"That is the cousin of one that was with us," says the partner. "Bella, right?"
I could not deny it.
"is 16 years old!"
I deny it categorically. And I'm sincere. In fact, I feel even ashamed. Shot I left the office.
(Sí, es en serio. Hay un límite.)
El hecho me recordó algo que viví cuando era profesor de inglés, hace unos cinco años. Los sábados en la mañana le daba clases a dos hermanitas, una de 17 y otra de 14. Ambas –la mayor en particular—estaban aparentemente decididas a un día venir en traje de baño, pues siempre traían un escote, una blusa corta, una minifalda, o cualquier combinación de las tres. Y no eran feas, las condenadas, además de buenas estudiantes y hasta simpáticas. No tengo que decirles el efecto que causaban entre la población masculina del instituto.
Y en esa misma época, había una niña también 17 year old who dressed similarly, smoked and had some pictures too ... ahem ... explicit in his cell. I am not aware, but it was rumored that he had "something"-brief, but not the point, with one teacher. One contemporary me.
I know I sound like a prude that I am certainly not "yes, I too have dived girls barely legal age in my life, but this phenomenon of new Lolitas is one reason why I have panic as the father of girls. True, a child can be one of the sweetest things of this world, but that child will become a teenager who is not nothing like the girls at my age. Pending means shaman, navel piercing (which seem to be going out of fashion, though) and show more and more skin.
And that's not all: I know of girls aged 14 to ask their parents sinus surgery. Less unusual is that parents who really accept it, pussy. And not enough pushups or anything like that, no, the carajitos wants to be busty from now. This is the same to hit the beach with a tiny dental floss, and consider how it evolves said garment also hoping to attract only the "pretty boys" and not "the idiots". Yes, Luis. That
I think part of the problem. The sexual revolution is here, the series are showing more skin than ever, there are swimsuits everywhere as advertising, and even so-called "teen series" are becoming a little adult. Example: the new Venevision, What Kind of Love , where I heard a parliament that still makes me mad (la'stima did not get the video): "I have blue shirt, but I am also a woman." WHAT?! proceed to see that many girls in trajebaño here, and many Chamos playing basketball shirtless, and well ... rampaging hormones, thanks.
Again, I'm no prude. But before that bombing, Chamos are wanting to experience sex increasingly free and increasingly early. Well ... I regret to say, but the busy world of today is leaving more and more parents delegate some essential roles in television. Know if the sexual liberation of some Chamas so much that you approach your dad and ask him about sex. And if the dad can tolerate it.
We also sit down and discuss all you want about values, moral and other, and peer pressure and everything, after all, is very difficult for a girl who sees not only the trunk of moms on TV y en las revistas, sino en la vida real, muchas veces sus amigas, conseguir novio y tener toda la atención que ellas desean sólo por mostrar barriguita o manque sea el principio de un escote. A menos que se le haya desarrollado una buena autoestima, la niña (y a veces el chamo) va a ver qué están haciendo sus pares para atraer la atención del sexo opuesto y va a querer hacer lo mismo.
Y Facebook empieza a contribuir. No está llegando a los extremos de hi5, eso sí. Yo siempre he dicho que hi5 es el sitio donde los chamos buscan con quién tirar, mientras Facebook es donde buscan verdaderas amistades, novi@s o bueno, con quien tirar. Una búsqueda de fotos de mujeres entre 17 y 21 años give a very large percentage of profile photos, not just on the beach, but straight out of "fly- card in the Playa El Diario . Facebook still has a little of that innocent image, but considering groups begin to appear around this as it will not last much longer. And many times, still not taken the precaution of making the profiles open only for friends.
All this makes the prospect of having a daughter, while not something to reject, it is something that fills me with deep terror. If we further consider that if God wills, the mother of my daughter will inherit her physical beauty (which is plentiful) and her coquetry (I love), they will realize that yes, I'm counting chickens long before birth (hell, the chicken or been trampled by the rooster yet), but I should have reason to worry.
Everything, absolutely everything, which is solved with a good education and an open and honest communication. And that the end is a great comfort. Part of my desire to have children is because I think I have the ability to transmit knowledge and to converse with people younger than me. Moreover, I think I had an extraordinary example of my parents (though of course, they had no daughters).
So, as I always say, that is what God wants. I just hope when I touch pass by the time they are being blatantly diving to my daughter, keep calm and civilized way to deal with it ...
... or the ability to create remote hives.
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